What is BDSM?
Every person answers this question in their own way. One might say that BDSM is an opportunity to have fun in bed and try something new. For someone else BDSM is the way of living. Yet another person might be curious about it but be a little afraid of those sorts of thing, and some might start wondering what is this world coming to? It is a fact that our world is wide and diverse and there is a place for everyone, where all needs and desires can be accommodated. Our online BDSM store will help you try anything you want - just do not forget about common sense and keep your head calm.
So, what exactly is BDSM? Let’s say it is a subculture of people’s relationships with each other. It is obvious that those relationships are very diverse, multi-faceted, inconsistent and they can be expressed in many ways. They are born and then disappear, they are created and then ruined. The entire human life is built upon various relationships. BDSM is just one of such relationships. Many people often make a mistake by thinking that BDSM is just a part of sexual life. It must be said that a lot of BDSM is built around sexual intercourse and erotic desires but is not limited to the realm of sexual relations.
Now then what does BDSM stand for? It is not a typical abbreviation because four letters are used to encode six words representing different areas of this subculture- bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism. Have a look at the spelling of BDSM to make it clear:
- BD - Bondage and discipline
- DS - Dominance and Submission
- SM – Sadism and Masochism
For some reason this abbreviation does not include Fetishism which is traditionally considered as part of BDSM.
This grouping of areas is rather indicative. Of course, there are enthusiasts of a single area only, but in real life all areas are intertwined with each other.
About our BDSM goods and accessories store
We have been trading BDSM goods for over 10 years! Our online store offers various BDSM merchandise
- handcuffs
- restraints
- fetish clothes and shoes
- collars and leads
- gags
- spread bars
- ropes
- masks
- body harness
- fetish devices • chastity belts
- nipple and genital clamps
- whips
- floggers
- paddles
- lashes
- bondage hooks
- confinement jackets
- strap-ons and dildoes
And various other items for your pleasure and delight!
Our BDSM online catalogue:
The menu in the left hand side shows the index of different themes. It is very likely that you find certain items that you have never heard of and will be surprised that we care for tastes and needs of even the most sophisticated customers.
All merchandise that we offer is made by the well-known western manufacturers who know customer’s desires very well and produce reliable, high-quality items which will last for years and are safe to use. We cooperate with foreign and Russian manufacturers of BDSM merchandise thus offering most of our items at affordable prices.
BDSM relationships
Many fear BDSM relationships because, as they think, those are impossible without violence. However, this culture is based on three interplay principles:
- Safety
- Free will
- Common sense
The above mean that everything that goes on between those practicing BDSM happens only upon mutual agreement, voluntarily, with all the necessary precautions for both physical and mental safety. It must be emphasized – there is absolutely no real violence in BDSM – it is merely a safe and interesting game for voluntary participants only!
Why do people join BDSM relationships?
There are two main groups of people who answer this question in a different way.
• The first group which is a majority includes those who joined this specific world via sexual relationships. Sexual intercourse is one of the human’s basic needs and it is natural for humans to have sex. Nevertheless, we must admit that after some time people get bored even of something they really like, including their beloved partner – a husband, a wife and lovers. At this point many people start thinking about ways to revive their passion and get rid of the boredom in bed. There are different ways to achieve these aims… Some commit adultery to get the feelings that they otherwise lack. The others participate in swinger parties to make their feelings sharper with the help of new partners and jealousy. But many people do not want new sexual relationships, all they want is to get new feelings with their current partner! That is when BDSM practices and sex toys come to aid.
BDSM relations are based on the psychological fantasies of the partners thus they can be implemented in an infinite number of ways. Each couple might choose their own rules of the game and then take turns, exchange their roles and so on. Contemporary sex industry offers huge variety of erotic scenarios, sexual conduct concepts and roleplay ideas, that bring novelty into your sexual life and make it exciting and thrilling time and over again. The best BDSM items offered by our store will help to create a themed entourage for your adult games. Do not try to run away from your fantasies but share them with your partner instead.
Just remember the Golden Rule of Sex – all your fantasies are normal unless they break the law, which is confirmed by every sexologist. If you try new ideas and push your partner to share them, then your sexual life will be interesting and well-balanced.
• The second group consists of those who knew right from the beginning that they prefer things that cannot be called ordinary. Do not ask them why. Can you explain why do you like oranges or chocolate (write your favourite food here) and buy them time and over again? Because you feel like it! Well, there are a lot of those who it that way. Statistically about 20 per cent of people have tried BDSM practices in one way or another or had fantasies of practicing it. Our store will be a true sign of faith for them as we offer all the things that you have dreamt of – come in and make your choice!
You will never feel disappointed if you choose our best BDSM store as your guide in the world of sex toys. We have many returning customers and will be happy to see you among them!
BDSM has long ago become a concept that our consciousness is comfortable with. Few years age such sexual practices were considered a perversion but today many people want to learn how to enjoy BDSM. Like the other pleasant activities, special accessories are used for BDSM.
What BDSM accessories to buy?
The main aim of BDSM is to make your partner more sensual in order to maximise their pleasure. That is why BDSM sexual toys are different from the traditional adult toys. Shiny metallic accessories, the crack of a whip, the clang of the handcuffs has an effect on partners similar to this of direct stimulation of the body parts.
A mask and bondage restraints are main accessories which are a must for any roleplay. Put a mask on your Sub and their senses will intensify by a great deal. Use restraints on their legs and arms and you can enjoy your domination and their submission. Every item that is used in BDSM is a source of pleasure for each partner. All that you have to do is to make a right selection!
Whips, paddles and lashes are the main tools used by the Dominating partner. They enhance the Sub’s obedience to the Dominating partner. It is obvious that a Submissive who is tied to a bed or a pillory is more obedient if the Dom has a whip in their hands. The choice of flogging tool will depend on how hard you are going to strike the partner. Lash can be suitable even at the beginning of the roleplay: stroke the sensitive body areas with its tail to wake partner’s senses. Ideally you should possess all types of flogging tools. It is important that they are made of different materials, have different stiffness and length.
Secure restraining is crucial
Restraint’s role in BDSM practices is of a similar importance as that of flogging tools. Secure and safe bondage means not only restraining the partner but also making sure they feel comfortable during roleplay. It is important that cuffs are soft unless you are planning to make your partner feel the pain.
BDSM merchandise is not intended solely for people practicing roleplays. Soft straps that help to fix the partner in a particular way, enable sexual positions described in Kamasutra that are not possible without the bondage.
Shall you decide to enhance Sub’s experience there are tons of accessories available including nipple clamps, hot wax, powered stimulating devices and Wartenberg Pinwheel. It is very important not to get too wild when stimulating your partner and finding the thin line between the pain and the pleasure that will ring both yours and your partner bells. BDSM merchandise offered by superstar.lv will help you to achieve that.
